Financial Education through Real Estate — How to Choose a REI Mentor (Part 1.5/2 — Top 3 Deal Breakers)

May 17, 2020

(WARNING: COLOURFUL LANGUAGE IN CONTENT)

This one is the hardest piece I have had to write to date. Like most experienced investors who have gone through the ups and downs building their portfolios, overtime our ‘what not to do’ list is actually much bigger than the ‘what to do’ one. This is done all in the hopes that the deal quality gets better and better. I joke with full truth a lot about this: if your first deal is your best deal, you’re doing it wrong! So…without going into too much of a tangent, here’s part 1.5/2 on the top 3 deal breakers for me when choosing a REI mentor these days.

For the record, I have a very deep appreciation for those brave enough to offer any kind of real estate investing training these days. Real estate, while being the most tried and tested asset class in human history, is also a moody animal. Training people on real estate investing can sometimes feel like training people on lion taming. Moreover, I also share the utmost respect for anyone courageous enough to offer financial education. It’s definitely the path less travelled. And, the mission of “creating financial independence one person at a time” is definitely one that requires more than just Trust Your Talent can accomplish. For that, I am grateful that there are others in the same industry.

On that note, it would be prudent to define what ‘industry’ that I am/we are in for doing what I get to do everyday. Like the titles of all of my published articles on this platform so far have suggested: financial education or financial education through real estate investing. Often times, people ask me about ‘competition’ in our industry and in the marketplace, my reaction has always been: there really aren’t that many — globally. Fortunately, I always say that “results always speak louder than words”. Usually, when people get to meet someone from and/or trained by Trust Your Talent, the question answers itself.

With that frame of mind, here’s my list of the top 3 deal breakers when choosing my next REI mentor:

To begin, borrowing from the previous article:

I stand for leveraging real estate investing strategies to achieve financial freedom because that was my goal and is my passion. I know some others may choose a mentor based on a single strategy, a market or a certain type of property. The importance is that you and your potential mentor align on your goal.

1. Misalignment in vision

For me, the purpose of putting my work and journey out there from day 1 is first and foremost to help others create financial independence or financial freedom through financial education. (Side note: it’s very uncomfortable to share a lot of the things I’ve been sharing. However, my mentor did tell me that I’d have to face my own fears and focus on the bigger picture. So here I am, stepping out of my comfort zone.).

What financial education has done for me is beyond what I could comprehend some days still. Yet, I feel it in my bones everyday that more people need to at least hear about it, if not allow themselves to start on it. Exemplified by one of my favourite quotes here, while traditional school (with a very pricey tag to my somewhat middle-class parents) bought me a poor mindset, a major clinical depression and my 3rd heart attack; financial education bought me time and money freedom, and later on, the ability to execute on my personal vision to help others achieve the same.

Ever since the first Wheel of Wealth article was shared, I’ve gotten very encouraging feedback from many of my readers. Perhaps it’s because it struck a chord — whether you’re a new grad from college/university, a highly trained professional (MD/PhD, engineer, accountant, nurse, marketer, programmer, etc.) or have simply fallen into the rat race.

As mentioned in the SMP Philosophy, it wasn’t always around when I first started learning and applying as an educated investor. It took time, more mentorship and further knowledge to distill the process. I firmly believe that if you don’t know where you are going, you’ll end up where you don’t want to be. Investing is very much like that. Over the years, I’ve seen people acquire properties and grow their portfolios only to end up with a 2nd job. It was shocking at first. However, when I dug deeper into these people’s stories, it was unsurprising to see how they end up where they are despite having numerous rental properties. Like one of those singing competition shows, it’s a constant balance between advancing one week at a time and still with a clear end goal in mind. I have hardly come across people admitting wearing the name badge of a Real Estate Investor that go into it with the goal to add more stress and to-do lists to their plate. Yet, so many do.

I, myself, and the creation of Trust Your Talent stand for the ideology of total wellness. This ideology is composed with wellnesses in 5 major areas in our daily lives: financial, physical, mental, emotional and spiritual. We are currently in Phase 1 of carrying out of the grander vision of “elevating human potential by living a strategically positive life” by offering tools to help with people improve their financial wellness. These are the same tools that have helped me greatly in my quest toward time and money freedom.

Further to that, mounting statistics and researches around the world have shown that “financial wellness” remains a front and centre determinant of one’s quality of life and state of mind. Forget statistics and research results, if we are to take an honest look at ourselves and the people around us, most (if not all) of us can relate to one of these statements or situations:

• The number one factor that breaks up any couple is money. I saw that happen to my parents and many other relationships in my lifetime so far.
• Stresses and worries about money have directly contributed to people’s mental health. I know I was there myself despite making a relatively healthy job income.
• The pressure to maintain and get ahead financially in life has directly caused physical symptoms and illnesses in the modern world.

The list goes on and on. Even a simple Google search on this topic alone was shocking and chilled me to the bone. The positive, though, is that it gave me a much needed dose of confidence and belief of what I stand for these days: increasing the level of financial education to help better people’s financial futures. Truthfully, this has never been about real estate or even real estate investing strategies (shocking, I know). This has always been about leveraging the right investment tool to take care of one very important aspect of our day-to-day lives: money. The most commonly used currency these days that allows us options in life.

I believe that people who are simply looking to buy more real estate aren’t simply the right audience for me or Trust Your Talent. Those who are seeking time and money freedom as a personal vision and a way of living are the ones that will resonate with these messages.

As a result, after bumping around for 4 decades with numerous mentors in my life, I look for those who understand that real estate investing is a means to and end. Those who create financial results through real estate investing to contribute to a bigger vision — in their own lives and into the world. Those who stand for anything less than that…well, they are simply not good enough anymore.

To be completely blunt, there are those who “teach” enough so that I either become their OPM (other people’s money) or have to solely rely on their ‘other paid services’ (ie. legal) in order to completely execute on any deal is a clear red flag. The purpose of offering financial education and elevating a person’s financial intelligence in my LOUD AND OBNOXIOUS opinion should aim at giving them the required tools for independent thinking and decision making when presented with an opportunity (for differentiation between opportunity vs deal, refer back to this article).

THIS quote above (or an ageless wisdom) is always the end goal. That’s why when I seek help these days, it’s to acquire resources, tools, new perspectives and new knowledge to become as good as my Mentor, if not better. I have no problem saying that because I know a few of my students definitely have gone on to doing bigger projects than I have. That is an amazing feeling when the shared vision is not on the size of the deal nor the amount of profit, but the ability to be autonomous and living life on our own terms.

Clearly asking them what their personal vision and mission for offering training and mentoring is a quick and easy way to determined whether you align. There should be ZERO hesitation for true go-giver to explain their purpose and intention being a mentor.

To be continued…

Tomy dedicated readers, I thank you for your support and feedback. If this is the first time you’re reading one of my publications, I hope you’ve enjoyed it and learned a thing or two.

For those of you who prefer watching videos, here is the YouTube channel where some of my work (very raw) has been shared.

And if you’re looking for the quickest way to understand what “financial education through real estate investing” means, we run 1-Day Bootcamps as an introduction. And yes, full disclosure, you’ll have the opportunity to pursue advanced trainings during the Bootcamp if you wish.

(Written at home in Edmonton, AB.)