Financial Education: Real Estate Investing 101 — Mindset (Part 2)
March 22, 2022
My ears have been burning all week and I thank you for it. I thank you because I know you’ve done the work for yourself and that lots of emotions and energies were stirred up going through the given ‘homework’ from last week.
As human beings, we are ultimately largely controlled by our emotions first and foremost. Have you heard of the saying: people won’t remember exactly what you’ve done to them, but they’ll always remember how you’ve made them feel? It’s even MORE powerful when you’re the cause of your own emotions. And our why’s, our purposes and our self-identified value of existence become the BEST emotional anchor for why we do what we do. As kids, we asked the WHY questions all the time. As we grow up, we’ve learned to box ourselves in — thinking that the less ‘why’ questions we ask, the wiser we’ve become somehow. That, to me, has always been instinctually incomprehensible. I sincerely hope that you recognize that fact and share in the same perception moving forward to start questioning behaviours, facts and motives — especially those that come from ourselves. After all, I’ve been saying that adults are just kids with bills to pay.
Speaking of ‘bills to pay’, that’s now the trap.

This quote tends to hit home for many that I’ve encountered over the years especially if you’ve been in the work force for some time. That usually means that we’re getting to the roots of some of the old money mindset that’s no longer serving us. Most commonly — scarcity. That’s the idea that holds us back. And that idea could’ve been as easily created by hearing our parents complaining about not having enough money to pay the bill ONCE. ONCE! That’s how easy these fearful ideas and take roots. Hence, many of the examples given in Part 1 come from a place of “not having enough”. Yet, “not having enough” often times get translated into “not being enough” when our ego gets in the way. Remember, we are human BEINGS first and foremost. Stop letting materialistic possessions and century-old societal limitations tell you that you’re not enough. YOU ARE ENOUGH. It’s the simple idea that you believe in that statement that’s brought you here and made you read this.
WE ARE BORN ENOUGH. We just need to acquire better tools as we go through life to deal with different challenges that come our way. That — is the hard truth.
I often say to my students that, at the end of the day, what they’re learning (as I have and am doing my darnedest to pass down) is ultimately financial education. Financial education = how money works. Taking it one step further: investing = how money works itself to create more money. We simply choose to leverage real estate investing strategies as the main tool to demonstrate the principles here.
To quickly latching onto where we left off, here’s what you can do next: have your list in front of you. This list should now contain the new “altered reality/desired outcomes” you’d like to be living in. That’s now the new starting point. If you haven’t done it yet, do this now: DREAM out loud on every item on that list. I’ll give you a few examples:
- In 2 years, I would like to take my entire family to Disney World on a no-expense-spared vacation for the kids’ spring break. We’re going to stay at the Grand Floridian — Concierge level with VIP tickets to bypass lines for rides. We will also be doing their premium dining package so we don’t have to worry about going to Costco and Walmart to haul groceries back every other day. (I’m not paid for using Disney as an example. Full disclosure, I do have 4 Disney timeshare properties if you’re interested in chatting about that.)
- Next year (in 15 months), I want to be able to update our beater cars and have the cashflow from 2 properties cover the monthly payments.
- I would like to be able to donate $1,000/month to my favourite charity (this is where you come in and insert the name of your favourite charity) using my passive income.
- I would like to tell my boss to pound sand in exactly 30 months from today because I’ll have achieved financial freedom #2. If you need some support for what that means, you can watch this video and have a conversation with a Strategy Coach about how to get there. (Side note: this is important as many of our WHYs will evolve over time as we reach each new goal.)

- I want to be able to pay for my 3 kids’ university education while growing and preserving assets properly. (Less specific and nonetheless powerful.)
- I want to prove to many people that I didn’t fail school. The education system failed me and I’m right to follow my intuition and trust my own ability to create a better life for myself — one that doesn’t follow the typical path.
- I want to be able to go on a 12-month around-the-world cruise with my wife/husband and not have to worry about money.
- I want to support my parents in their old age.
As you witnessed here, some pictures are very vivid and deadline driven, and some are purely emotional. No right or wrong here (and you’ll hear me say that A LOT in almost everything I put out there.). The point is that you honour your true self. Notice how the last few statements all start with “I want”? Dig and dig deeper. Let it come from a place where it’s truly what you desire.
Here are also some guiding principles to help you (as they’ve helped me) further crystallize your picture:
- There may come a time in your pursuit for better financial wellness (aka — make more money and have more financial resources) where you experience a negative event or setback. (You will hear about how I lost $1M overnight in 2016 and went into negative net worth at a later time and how I made it back many times over in a short amount of time). The point is — this can be a common occurrence for most businesses. However, learning to adapt to these occasions will be key. Understand that these sorts of things happen and are to be expected is the first step. The second step NOW is to also realize WHY we do this mindset bit first. For example, people who want to get in better shape. If the fundamental purpose of getting in good shape is one that matter, one that — if not achieved — would be unbearable, unthinkable and completely undesirable. When that happens, they won’t let excuses such as: “well, I had to order something from the unhealthy menu when I was out with friends last weekend even though nothing on the menu would contribute to my goal.” Or, “I’ve been traveling for work non-stop for 3 weeks straight and there was just no time to exercise or look after what I was eating.” Or, “It was the holidays”, “I was on vacation”, “But I don’t have that much of it”, or “It made me happy at the time” (the most dangerous of it all). Frankly, exercise and diet is an easy target combo to demonstrate this point. And that point is PRIORITY. The sub-point here is DISCIPLINE.
A couple of my favourite quotes on these 2 words that I’ve heard (hard to pin point exactly who said them FIRST) that I’d like to share here:
PRIORITY — if it’s important to you, you’ll find a way. If not, you’ll find an excuse.
DISCIPLINE — it’s choosing what you want most over what you want now.
- We are not the first to leverage real estate investing to build a business. This fact alone should provide motivation, confidence and the belief that this can be done, and by you. The proof of concept has already been proven. The best example I can think of is Roger Bannister — the man who ran a mile in under 4 minutes when NOBODY thought it was humanly possible. The cool part about that is that, 6 weeks later, that record was broken by John Landy. I’m completely floored just by sharing the fact over and over again. And, while my name has not been printed all over mainstream media (and I’m happy to keep it that way), my personal dream is to help as many people achieve financial freedom as I have. If an immigrant from Taiwan moving to a completely foreign country with little to no English at 17 can eventually create financial freedom in 25 months and end up with a 8-digit net worth by simply following the footsteps of others before him, so can you. (This is only the 2nd time I have shared the net worth thing publicly to demonstrate 2 things: One — when done right, leveraging “real estate investing is never a get rich quick scheme, it’s a get rich for sure plan”. I have Ryan Carr on the Trust Your Talent Academy team to thank for that quote. Two — it’s utterly uncomfortable to share something like this. However, I’m asking you to be completely authentic with yourself as you journey through my articles, it would be unfair and simply hypocritical to dilute the truth or adapt the ‘lie by omission’ approach. It may continue to grow, it may not. It’s powerful knowing that it’s entirely up to me. I started wanting time and money freedom. It was never about chasing after a certain level of wealth. However, the happy side effect is the financial resources you’ll build. Either way, I’m not Elon Musk nor Jeff Bezos, or one of the Sharks or Dragons on TV, or maybe even one of your rich relatives. If that number inspires you, thank you. If it doesn’t, thank you. I’m still me.
- Most people’s reason behind getting started as an investor is to provide more time freedom in their lives — more time to spend with family and friends and less time spent in meaningless activities. Real estate investing can provide a path in which you get to choose how much time you spend working or being away from home. As I’m writing this, we’re living in peculiar times. Particularly talking about the end of COVID…that ‘forced’ us to spend a lot of time with our families. It’s one answer that I hear lots when I asked them “WHY do you want to learn how to invest in real estate?”. COVID proved that it’s not the amount of time we want to spend with our family, but the quality of the time we spend together that matters the most. I’ll just leave it at: quality over quantity still applies here and “quality” tends to come with a price tag.
With all that, here are the action items for this week on this subject:
- Create a dream board (or vision board). YES, I’m old school. This is where you get to go back in time and treat yourself like a 6th grader for a show and tell. Except that the only audience and the biggest fan of this project is YOU. Find images of your “desired outcomes” — in magazines, online, on Instagram, etc., and print them out and put the on the board. (Quick notes: you don’t have to fill the entire board right now if you don’t have enough. The purpose is to start getting you to visualize in a very real way. EVERY picture you put up there should at least bring a smile to your face, if not make you completely emotional and even break out into tears. That’s how powerful these images need to be!)
- Next, put a price tag and deadline next to each image. YES, this sounds crass to some of you. However, this is what we are dealing with here, aren’t we? Money is, after all, the most commonly used measurement and currency to exchange services and goods in the modern world. For example, if you’re wanting to take a family vacation (whatever the images you choose to use), do a guestimate or you can price everything out now online if you want to go the extra mile. I’ve had many students do that. Or — if you’d like to drive a certain car — go for a test drive, sit down with the sales person to discuss purchasing options and then bring that number back and put it on your vision board.
- Watch the videos suggested (link included here again) and speak to a Strategy Coach.
We will be wrapping up the ‘mindset’ portion after Part 3 and there will be lots more coming as we dive into more financial education content and leveraging real estate investing to help your dream board come true!